Been there, done that. It's surprisingly helpful to think about what might have led someone to do or say what they did or said. To put yourself in their shoes and realise they probably didn't mean it as a personal attack, they simply needed to unload on someone what life had unloaded on them.
:) True. Hugs to you Mimsie
ReplyDeleteNot always easy but we certainly try to understand. :)
DeleteTrue. And it is rare too.
ReplyDeleteRather difficult at times but one learns to hold one's tongue as one ages.
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ReplyDeleteIt is indeed! Lovely offering Mimsie. YAM xx
Thank you Yam. I think we are all agreed it can be difficult at times. xx
DeleteBeen there, done that. It's surprisingly helpful to think about what might have led someone to do or say what they did or said. To put yourself in their shoes and realise they probably didn't mean it as a personal attack, they simply needed to unload on someone what life had unloaded on them.
ReplyDeleteI feel you've explained it very well. I guess at times we all perhaps "take it out on someone else without really intending to do so".
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