tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post4832635652989105525..comments2024-03-08T21:26:51.950+08:00Comments on A geriatric grandmother: FAMILY MEMBER (+ EX MEMBER) No 6 (Part 1)Mimsiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00249766510078357225noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-15077589737247059832012-11-13T03:57:03.710+08:002012-11-13T03:57:03.710+08:00I'm on my own and plan to stay that way.I'm on my own and plan to stay that way. Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-14845785279198981712012-11-12T22:03:48.146+08:002012-11-12T22:03:48.146+08:00There was fortunately no physical abuse but quite ...There was fortunately no physical abuse but quite a lot of emotional abuse both to me and my daughter. I think you will find she has written in her blog about her dad so I needn't go into any of that here. As I said to PPMJ I am grateful that MOH and I have managed over 45 years, not of wedded bliss exactly but I think we understand each other which is the most important thing in a relationship in my opinion.Mimsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249766510078357225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-64160776494928987312012-11-12T22:01:15.973+08:002012-11-12T22:01:15.973+08:00PPMJ you could be so right there. I certainly hav...PPMJ you could be so right there. I certainly have done well second time around. Don't get me wrong MOH and I have our ups and downs but we always come back to earth and all is well again. xxMimsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249766510078357225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-54364612089525265632012-11-12T22:00:15.455+08:002012-11-12T22:00:15.455+08:00Yes River jealousy is a dreadful affliction especi...Yes River jealousy is a dreadful affliction especially for those that suffer because of it. I hope you have somebody now that looks after you without any jealousy.Mimsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249766510078357225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-2529322713315071282012-11-12T19:14:39.284+08:002012-11-12T19:14:39.284+08:00Hindsight is always perfect vision, unlike the ros...Hindsight is always perfect vision, unlike the rose-coloured glasses we start out with. <br />My second hubby (ex) was the jealous sort, he once tried to break my hands so I couldn't go to work, in case I got friendly with male customers and left him. Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-56313955682835002242012-11-09T19:43:01.031+08:002012-11-09T19:43:01.031+08:00Goodness, sometimes I do wonder if we are with the...Goodness, sometimes I do wonder if we are with these type of men first just so we can appreciate the truly lovely men we end up with. Sounds like it's so in your case xxPinkPatentMaryJaneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07219272193124932806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2704657209559170713.post-8888620358962006262012-11-09T18:05:05.971+08:002012-11-09T18:05:05.971+08:00It does sound as if your mama was right. We are n...It does sound as if your mama was right. We are now taught that preventing (or trying to prevent) one's partner from a social life without them is a fair indication of domestic violence. And a form of emotional abuse. Scary. I will be more than happy to read your next part, and am glad that you are now in a longstanding and happy relationship.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.com